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The Lesson of We

Many separate embers converging into one rising Phoenix
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You have already walked through the fire.
Each of you.
Alone.

And because you survived it alone, you may believe that alone is how you must continue.

But a single drop cannot become a river by trying harder to be a drop.
It must join another.
And another.

Many people wait for the world to change before they change themselves. Others wait for a leader to show them where to go.

But perhaps neither is necessary.

Perhaps the first step is simply this:

One person says, “I am willing.”
Another says, “So am I.”

And suddenly there is no longer only I.
There is we.

Do not be afraid that joining together means becoming the same. A garden does not become beautiful because every flower agrees to be a rose.

Each remains what it is.
Yet together, they become something no single flower could create.

This is also true of people.

Your language may be different.
Your songs may be different.
Your customs, your beliefs, your stories, your scars — all different.

Good.
Keep them.

Harmony does not require sameness.
It requires only that we learn when our separate voices can carry the same intention.

There are those who will tell you that changing the world is impossible.

Do not argue with them.
Smile.

They may simply be confusing “impossible” with “not yet.”

Many things seem impossible when viewed from the beginning of the path.

The mountain is too high.
The river is too wide.
The world is too large.
And one person is very small.

All of this may be true.

But the mistake is believing that one person must carry the whole world.

You do not.

Carry the idea.
Carry it as far as you can.
Then allow another person to carry it farther.

If the idea is good, do not protect it too tightly.

Give it away.
Let others change it.
Let them improve it.
Let them discover parts of it that you could not see.

And when they begin calling it their own, do not be disappointed.

Be grateful.

For an idea that still belongs only to one person has not yet learned how to walk.

You have already survived the fire.
That was the lesson of I.

Now perhaps comes the lesson of we.

Not “Who will save us?”
Not “Who will lead us?”

But:

What can we build together that none of us can build alone?

And if enough people ask that question sincerely, perhaps one day you will look around and discover that the world did change.

Not because one person changed it.
Because millions of people finally realized they were never as powerless as they believed.

I.
We.

And perhaps, together—
Free.