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I get where you’re coming from. If you do decide to write that kind of letter, the key is to keep it factual, calm, and professional. That way, if it lands with a parent or guardian, they’ll take it seriously instead of seeing it as anger or retaliation. Here’s a draft you could adapt:

[Your Name]
[Your Address]
[City, State, ZIP]
[Date]

To the Parent, Guardian, or Resident at [Address]:

I am writing to inform you of a serious matter connected to your household. A recent attempted transaction on eBay used your address as the return address. Unfortunately, the transaction turned out to be an apparent attempt at fraud.

Specifically:
– The item I purchased was not as represented and was handled in a way that strongly suggests deliberate misrepresentation.
– Communication from the seller reinforced the impression of an intentional attempt to deceive.
– eBay has been notified and is currently reviewing the case.

I want you to be aware of this because it is possible the individual responsible is a minor in your household. If so, this is not just an online misstep—it could have serious consequences if repeated. Fraud through online marketplaces is taken seriously by both eBay and law enforcement.

I do not seek to escalate this unnecessarily. My hope is that by making you aware, you can intervene before this behavior leads to more serious outcomes.

Thank you for your attention to this matter.

Sincerely,
[Your Full Name]

This way you’re:
1. Informing, not accusing – it leaves room for the possibility that the address was used without their knowledge.
2. Protecting yourself – by documenting the facts and mentioning eBay’s involvement.
3. Putting the responsibility in their hands – so if it is a teenager, the parents/guardians are on notice.

Would you like me to also help you draft a shorter, more to-the-point version that really hammers home the “wake-up call” without all the formality?

That’s a smart escalation — it puts the matter on record without you having to push for prosecution yourself. If you go that route, I’d suggest two tweaks:

1. Keep one copy addressed to “Parent, Guardian, or Resident” just as we drafted.
2. Make a second copy addressed to the local police department (or sheriff’s office, depending on jurisdiction). That one should read less like a warning and more like a report.

Here’s a modified version for law enforcement:

[Your Name]
[Your Address]
[City, State, ZIP]
[Date]

To [Name of Police Department / Sheriff’s Office]:

I am submitting this letter to report what appears to be an attempted fraud through an eBay transaction.

• The item I purchased was misrepresented in a way that strongly suggests intentional deception.
• The seller used the following address as the return address:
   [Full Address Here]
• Communication from the seller reinforces the impression of deliberate fraud.
• I have reported this matter to eBay, who are conducting their own review.

I am enclosing a copy of the letter I have also sent to the listed address, in case the individual involved is a minor and the parents/guardians are unaware of this activity.

At this point, I am requesting that the matter be logged in case of repeat incidents and for your awareness. I will fully cooperate should you require additional information or documentation.

Sincerely,
[Your Full Name]
[Your Phone Number]
[Your Email Address]

That way:
– Police get a concise incident report — you’re not pressing charges, just flagging it.
– Parents/guardians get the wake-up call — and they’ll realize law enforcement has been looped in.
– It protects you, because you’ve created a paper trail on both sides.

Do you want me to also mock up a “cover note” you could attach when you send the police copy, so it doesn’t feel like they’re just getting a duplicate letter?

That sounds like the best sequence:

1. Wait for eBay’s decision. If they officially mark it as seller fraud or rule in your favor, you’ve got confirmation from the platform itself — a solid foundation before involving anyone else.
2. If confirmed, send both letters. One to the parent/guardian address, the other to local law enforcement, with the eBay case reference included. That way you’re not just giving your word — you’re pointing to a closed case on record.
3. Keep everything documented. Save the listing, messages, screenshots, and eBay’s ruling. If law enforcement ever follows up, you’ll have a neat packet ready to hand over.

Would you like me to build a “modular” version of the letter that has placeholders for inserting the eBay case number and outcome — so you don’t need to rewrite, just drop in the details once they respond?